Relationships, dating and Marriage are the same - as far as preparing and improving on your relationship and your commitment to that relationship. You can't prepare for everything that will happen that's life - unforeseen things will always happen but faith that you can work your way through them all, that will help a lot - some times you will have to go for help or counseling or even prayer and other things to get you through the trials.
Trails will always come and so will problems - you can not run from your trials, no matter what happens, drugs, violence, anger, abuse - all those negative things can not make it better - but humility and faith can make it easier.
Cold feet before marriage maybe a warning some thing is not right, it might be better to give your self some time to look at what is bothering you.
Are there some things you should be more honest about?
Are there some things you should be working on in the relationship or in preparing for what is coming?
What is your concern? What is her concern?
Have you talked about it - thought about it or even discussed it?
It's better before the marriage and before the commitment, and way before their are children because - if its a problem it will come back at you again until you able to work with it and overcome it.
How many divorces could of been avoided if the couples would have looked at problems that will arise and then prepared for those - through the relationship or even before the marriage.
I love romantic comedies - especially hallmark films, unfortunately love is often blind and too many of us ignore warnings or what our friends are saying or even what - your mind or heart is saying - in the form of warnings.
Pay attention to the warnings, but don't let them become impossible fears.
In the video Memory book - this gal decides to forget about marriage - even though she loves the guy - her whole life changes on that one choice. it has a great ending though.
Another movie talks about Religious traditions - one gal marring a departed husband's brother - it's easy to fall in love but you still have to live with the consequences! That's only part of the story of Loving Leah.
Now this last - idea and movie - what shy guy or gal has not wished they could of had a dating coach to make a bigger difference in their dating?
But that rarely happens - right - in this movie it makes all the difference - but only if you are coach-able or at least willing to learn and change what and how you do things.
This coach has to great advice and also do some great things with her client - they both change for the better and that's the real gold here.
What would you do to become a gay or gal that makes a difference in others lives as you date with them - is it just for fun or has this social activity - does it serve a higher and better purpose for both of you?
Find out and think about what you would do to make a difference in the lives you date and socialize with - you can't do this on line - it can only be done one on one -with real quality time.
Throw away (Put away) the electronic devices and lets get one on one in our relationships again!
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